Often clients find their way into my office after a painful event when some aspects of their sexual behavior were discovered by others, causing a rupture. Whether it was their partner, employer, or someone else, the consequences of the discovery bring forth a world of hurt. My clients share feeling torn and burdened by an […]
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The Out of Control Sexual Behavior (OCSB) model teaches clients how to express themselves sexually while being in alignment with their values. It allows clients the freedom to determine their own vision Sexual Health. This vision is guided by a set of sexual ethics called the principles of Sexual Health. These six principles are based
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As someone who lives with Multiple Sclerosis, I understand the various challenges and concerns that come with it, both for the partner with a disabled body and the partner with an able body. In my experience, a lot of support is available for people with MS, but there aren’t as many resources for partners who
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Folks who have experienced an affair within a relationship often ask me, “Is it possible to overcome this?” The short answer is “Yes!” Their pain and difficulty notwithstanding, affairs have the possibility of occasioning new bonds that can be even more meaningful than partners had prior to their affairs. Getting to that point, however, takes
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When working with people around intimacy, I often assess how folx flirt. Flirting between those who are dating is expected, but after years of being married or living together, people forget to flirt or even how to flirt. The reasons for flirting are so important because the lack of it can result in people feeling
