Due to the daily pressures, distractions, and dynamics of modern life, a romantic relationship doesn’t have to be dysfunctional to grow distant over time. Long working hours and the demands of raising children can push date night, sex, and romantic vacations to last place on the priority list. Researchers at UCLA observed 30 dual-career couples […]
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Let’s just be honest; marriage can be hard. It can be very rewarding, fulfilling, exciting, lovely AND it can be painful, lonely, and aggravating. How do marriages last for 60 happy years? The emphasis here is being happy for all those years because, as we know, people can be married for a long time, but
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In the tapestry of human relationships, understanding the attachment material that weaves our interactions is paramount to fostering healthier connections. One crucial aspect of this understanding is recognizing the negative interactive cycle that is a virus to a couples connection. An invisible force that creates yucky feelings of disconnection and loneliness in the relationship. The
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Pause and Reflect: How do you usually react when feelings of insecurity or dissatisfaction emerge within your relationship? Do you tend to withdraw, resort to criticism and control, or seek connection through gentle vulnerability? When your partner extends a comforting hand, do you find solace and relaxation, or do apprehension and discomfort cast shadows on
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In today’s fast-paced world, where communication often happens in bytes and briefs, the art of emotional connection in relationships can feel like a relic of a bygone era. Yet, as the latest episode of the Roadmap to Secure Love Podcast, vividly illustrates, the essence of truly understanding and connecting with our partners lies in mastering
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In our recent podcast episode on the Roadmap to Secure Love, we dove deep into attachment theory, providing our listeners with a nuanced understanding of this crucial psychological framework. Here, we will summarize the challenges discussed in the episode, outline the key takeaways, and explain how attachment theory can be leveraged to enhance personal relationships
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In the realm of relationships, the conversation around sex often gravitates towards the physical aspects. However, our latest podcast episode on the Roadmap to Secure Love takes a different approach, emphasizing the critical role of emotional safety in sex. This aspect of intimacy, often overshadowed by the pursuit of physical pleasure, holds the key to
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In every relationship, there comes a time when the dynamics between partners can feel strained. Often, this strain appears when one partner perceives the other as needy or overly dependent. These moments can provoke a strong emotional reaction, frequently described as an ‘ick’ feeling—a mixture of discomfort and aversion. But what does this reaction reveal
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In the realm of relationships, conflicts and emotional disruptions are inevitable. However, the difference between enduring partnerships and those that falter often lies in how these conflicts are resolved. At Healing Moments Counseling, we understand the critical nature of this process and employ Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) to guide couples through these turbulent times. In
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In the labyrinth of human connections, communication is not merely a tool but the very bedrock upon which relationships are built and nurtured. In the latest episode of “The Roadmap to Secure Love,” our experts Kim and Kyle delve into the profound challenges and transformative potential of communication in relationships. The Importance of Owning Our
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