Meet Kyle Benson

Hi, I'm Kyle

(he / him)

I am a couples and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist. My passion is helping couples create secure functioning relationships. My therapeutic approach is based on The Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Attachment Theory, and Polyvagal theory. As a research nerd, I love using evidence-based practices to support change in relationships.

I became a couples and sex therapist because I know what it’s like to not be in a secure relationship. My own therapeutic journey was transformative for me in learning how to co-create a secure relationship with my partner.

If you choose to work with me, we will work together to come up with therapeutic goals and steps to bring healing, change, and transformation to your life. To support long-term changes, I highly encourage significant others to participate in the therapy process.

I am non-monogamous and BDSM-friendly. I provide therapy in English.

When I’m not sitting with clients, I am reviewing the latest research on relationships and sexual intimacy to uncover practical tools for fostering a secure and healthy connection. I was a researcher in Dr. John Gottman’s Love Lab and still help SPAFF code couple’s conversations. You can check out my articles below.

Fun Facts: I drink way too much coffee on a daily basis because it taste so good. I call Florida my home, and when the weekend rolls around, you can spot me cruising in a golf cart, enjoying the tunes of reggae, or BBQing with friends and family.

Areas of Focus with Clients

  • Couples Conflict & Relational Distress
  • Infidelity and Affairs
  • Non-Monogamous Relationships
  • Perinatal Mental Health/Adjusting to Children
  • Sexuality and Intimacy
  • Anxiety and Depression
  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Cultural Issues
  • LGBTQQIA+ Affirming
  • Kink Friendly

Professional Memberships

  • American Association for Marriage & Family Therapy (AAMFT)
  • Washington Association of Marriage and Family Therapy (WAMFT)
  • Member of the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT)

Credentials and Training

  • Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
  • AASECT Certified Sex Therapist
  • Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy Externship
  • Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy Core Skills
  • Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy Affair Training
  • Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy and Shame Training
  • Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy, Level One & Two
  • The Gottman Method Couples Therapy Training: Level One, Two, and Three.
  • The Gottman Method Couples Therapy: Couples Addiction and Recovery
  • The Gottman Method Couples Therapy: Treating Affairs and Trauma
  • The 7 Principles for Making Marriage Work Leader Training
  • Bringing the Baby Home Leader Training
  • Trained SPAFF Coder for Dr. John Gottman's Love Lab
  • Crucible Neurobiological Therapy
  • The Developmental Model of Couples Therapy
  • Certified Prepare-Enrich Facilitator
  • Clinical Work with Consensual Non-Monogamous Relationships
  • Applied Tantra for Practitioners

Session Fees:

  • $230 for an individual/couple 50-minute session
  • $345 for an 80-minute session
  • Sliding scale spots are available.
Schedule A Session

Kyle's Contact Information:

Email: Kyle@healingmomentscounseling.net

Phone: (360) 830-6129

Kyle sees clients in Florida and Washington via telehealth.

Kyle Benson is working in association with Healing Moments Counseling and is solely responsible for the healthcare services Kyle Benson provides.

Client Reviews

Healing Moments Counseling is an excellent resource to the community. The therapists are competent, caring, and exceptional. As a local Psychologist I cannot say enough how wonderful Dr. Kimberly Castelo and her team are. I highly recommend this practice!

Rachel Needle

Google Review

Healing Moments Sex and Couples Therapy is my number one recommendation for a group practice. The practice and the providers are top quality in education and training with Kimberly Castelo guiding and mentoring the team.

Ronda Evans

Google Review

Kim brings a listening ear and so much wisdom as she counsels. You can dump your stuff and she’s not phased by it. She’s a great partner in the healing process. We could all use another counseling session with Kim!

Trish Beagle

Google Review

Kyle's Articles