Relationship Therapy
Couples and Consensual Non-Monogamy
All Relationships Need Therapy At Some Point
Relationships of all kinds go through seasons of difficulties when partners feel distant, unloved, and caught in a “dance” or pattern of fighting and pain. Through compassionate relationship therapy in Seattle, we help couples learn how to connect at a heart level to their lover(s) as a way of engaging differently in the “marriage dance.”
Our relationship counseling approach focuses on building healthier communication, deeper connection, and overall healing between partners.
How Can Relationship Therapy Help?
Relationship therapy provides a space for couples in Seattle to thrive in their romantic relationship by building trust and creating a secure relational dynamic. Our experienced therapists help partners navigate relationship challenges and strengthen their bond. Below are some other ways that relationship therapy can help:

Improved Communication: Relationship therapy can help partners communicate better and understand each other’s perspectives. This can lead to a reduction in misunderstandings and an increase in empathy, which can strengthen the relationship.

Conflict Resolution: Relationship therapy can help partners learn how to resolve conflicts in a healthy and constructive manner. This can prevent small issues from escalating into larger problems and can promote a more harmonious relationship.

Increased Intimacy: Relationship therapy can help partners develop a deeper emotional connection and increase their intimacy. This can lead to a more fulfilling and satisfying relationship.

Identifying Patterns: Relationship therapy can help partners identify negative patterns in their relationship and work to change them. This can help prevent future conflicts and promote a more positive dynamic between partners.

Addressing Individual Issues: Relationship therapy can also provide a safe space for partners to address individual issues that may be impacting their relationship. This can help partners develop a greater sense of self-awareness and promote personal growth, which can ultimately benefit the relationship.
Overall, relationship therapy can be a valuable tool for partners who want to improve their relationship and work through any challenges they may be facing.
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Issues Relationship Therapy Can Help With
- Communication difficulties
- Conflict resolution
- Trust issues
- Intimacy issues
- Infertility and reproductive issues
- Parenting disagreements
- Financial issues
- Life transitions
- Cultural differences
- Sexual problems
- Role conflicts
- Infidelity
- Jealousy
- Emotional distance
- Depression and anxiety
- In-law issues
- Trauma
- Separation and divorce
- Grief and loss
- Family conflicts
- And more
It’s important to note that this is not an exhaustive list, as every relationship is unique and may have its own specific challenges.
Issues Relationship Therapy Can Help With
Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFCT) is the scientifically based therapeutic approach to help relationships thrive. In fact, studies show that over 70% of couples in EFT went from distressed to happy, and 90% significantly improved. Perhaps more important, the results were stable two years later.
Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy is a form of therapy that aims to strengthen the emotional connection between partners. Its primary goal is to foster emotional safety and connection to create a secure relationship for both people in the relationship. EFCT interventions take what is happening between partners and restructures their interactions into more vulnerable and connecting experiences.
Those key moments of deep connection can offer healing! And that’s one of the reasons Healing Moments Counseling uses EFCT.
FAQ
What is relationship therapy?
Relationship therapy is a specialized form of counseling that improves communication, helps resolve conflicts, and strengthens emotional connection. Our therapists work with partners to identify unhealthy patterns, build trust, and develop the skills needed to create a more secure and fulfilling relationship dynamic.
Can couples counseling save your relationship?
Couples counseling can be highly effective when partners are committed to the process and willing to do the work. While we can’t guarantee specific outcomes, many couples find that therapy helps them reconnect, resolve longstanding issues, and build stronger foundations for their relationship. Success often depends on timing, commitment, and the willingness of both partners to engage openly and honestly.
Do you serve areas outside Seattle?
Yes, we serve clients beyond the Seattle area through virtual sessions and have licensed therapists in multiple states including Washington, North Carolina, Florida, and Arkansas. Our telehealth services allow us to provide the same quality care regardless of your location, making our specialized relationship and sex therapy accessible to couples across these regions.
Who Is Couples Counseling For?
Couples counseling is for any committed relationship that wants to improve their connection, whether they’re dating, engaged, married, or in other partnership arrangements. We also work with individuals and couples practicing consensual non-monogamy who are navigating the unique dynamics of multiple relationships. It’s beneficial for couples experiencing communication difficulties, intimacy issues, major life transitions, or those who simply want to strengthen their bond and prevent future problems from developing.