Meet Cherry Mckinstry

I work with couples and individuals who want to feel more connected—whether that’s in your romantic relationship, with yourself, or with the people around you. Relationships can be deeply fulfilling, but they can also feel complicated, overwhelming, or painful at times. My role as your therapist is to walk alongside you through those complexities, helping you discover more clarity, choice, and peace.

My approach is rooted in compassion and curiosity. I’ll ask thoughtful questions about your past, present, and hopes for the future so we can understand how your experiences shape the way you relate today. You may notice moments when I gently pause or interrupt—that’s intentional, giving us space to explore the nuances of your thoughts and feelings. Together, we’ll uncover patterns that may be keeping you stuck and create new ways of relating that feel more secure and satisfying. I also believe therapy doesn’t end when the session does, so I’ll encourage you to reflect or practice small strategies between sessions to help your growth carry into daily life.

A little about me: I was born in Viet Nam, raised in Southern California, and am now a mom to identical twin boys—married to an identical twin myself!